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versary deliver thee to the judge, and the judge deliver thee to the officer, and thou be cast into prison. Verily I say unto thee, Thou shalt by no means come out thence, till thou hast paid the uttermost farthing. Matt. 5:25-26.

When any difference arises between another and yourself, if possible, agree with him at once, surrendering, if necessary and at all consistent, your claims. It is important that you do not offend him. The value you put upon some material condition may become a stumbling block in his pathway to higher things. Show him instead, that your faith in God tells you that man cannot take away from you anything which God cannot give; and that peace of mind is really the one most desirable possession upon earth. If, on the contrary, you do strive merely for the sake of gaining your own point, you will pay a very dear price for it in the end.

Brethren, even if a man be overtaken in any trespass, ye who are spiritual, restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; looking to thyself, lest thou also be tempted. Gal. 6:1.

Admonish the disorderly, encourage the fainthearted, support the weak, be longsuffering toward all. See that none render unto any one evil for evil; but always follow after that which is good, one toward another and toward all. 1 Thes. 5:14-15.

Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good. Rom. 12:21.

Look for God in your neighbor, and not for that which is not God. If he has a physical defect, make a distinct mental picture of physical perfection in that part. If you see a fault, think of the corresponding virtue and act accordingly. If he is what the world calls stingy, imagine him as the embodiment of generosity, and in turn show to him generosity and gratitude. Remember that you cannot let your mind dwell upon your neighbor's faults without harm to yourself as well as to him. There is only one way: obey the command, overcome evil with good.

Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful. Luke 6:36.

Judge not, and ye shall not be judged; condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned.

Luke 6:37.

Speak not one against another.

James 4:11.

If any man thinketh himself to be religious while he bridleth not his tongue but deceiveth his heart, this man's religion is vain. James 1:26.

against his neighbor.

Let none of you imagine evil in your hearts Zech. 8:17.

If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live Rom. 12:18.

peaceably with all men.

Let us not therefore judge one another any more; but judge this rather, that no man put a stumbling block or an occasion to fall in his brother's way.

Rom. 14:13.

But love your enemies, and do them good, and lend, never despairing; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be sons of the Most High: for he is kind toward the unthankful and evil. Luke 6:35. Nor rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing, but contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye should inherit a blessing. 1 Pet. 3:9.

Doing nothing through faction, or through vainglory, but in lowliness of mind each counting other better than himself, not looking each of you to his own things, but each of you also to the things of others. Phil. 2:3-4.

The world goes out of its way to humiliate the vainglorious person, who, if he were not so blinded by self-conceit, would see that his attitude toward himself shows ignorance and a lack of spiritual understanding. Truly he reasons solely with "the mind of the flesh," or else he would know that of himself he could do nothing; (1 Cor. 12:6 and Ps. 115:1). As he does not walk in the light of Truth, he stumbles (Acts 12:23) and the world is glad if he falls. The man who has understanding has also humility and he does all for the glory—not of himself -but of God (1 Cor. 10:31).

Now we that are strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak, and not to please ourselves. Let each one of us please his neighbor for that which is good, unto edifying. Rom. 15:1-2.

Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. Gal. 6:2.

Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with Rom. 12:15.

them that weep.

When you rejoice with one over his good fortune you are truly manifesting God to him, you are showing the Love that is untainted by jealousy or envy. And why should a believer ever be envious? Does he not know that he is provided with all that he needs for comfort and true happiness? Get into sympathy with another for the purpose of learning how best to implant in his soul the glad tidings which as a Christian you are dispensing. Be careful not to make his grief keener. Be tactful. Tact is common kindness greatly refined.

These are the things that ye shall do: Speak ye every man the truth with his neighbor; execute the judgment of truth and peace in your gates.

Zech. 8:16.

The world is watching you. Give it no cause to say that you do not live according to your profession. Prove your faith by your works. Mean what you say. (Matt. 5:37.) Keep your word—your promises. (Col. 3:9-10.)

In all things I gave you an example, that so laboring ye ought to help the weak, and to remember the words of the Lord Jesus that he himself said, It is more blessed to give than to receive. Acts 20:35.

Withhold not good from them to whom it is due, when it is in the power of thy hand to do it. Say not unto thy neighbor, Go, and come again, and tomorrow I will give; when thou hast it by thee.

Prov. 3:27-28.

Never withhold just praise from him to whom it is due, nor from others concerning him. To do so is quite as dishonest as it is to withhold any of his material belongings. Also any assistance that you can render to him belongs to him in the eyes of God —his Father and yours. It is imperative to obey every impulse to be kind, and you will, if you truly desire to be in the service of the Father. Who knows but that you may have been delegated to answer some one's prayer? Never let a debt go unpaid if it is possible to pay it; to do so is to encumber oneself and possibly add greatly to the burden of others. (Prov. 22:7, last clause.)

Owe no man anything, save to love one another; for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law.

Rom. 13:8.

Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity, for God loveth a cheerful giver. 2 Cor. 9:7.

For whosoever shall give you a cup of water to drink in my name, because ye belong to Christ, verily, I say unto you, he shall not lose his reward. Mark 9:41.

Give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow of thee, turn not thou away.

Matt. 5:42.

And in whatsoever house ye enter first say, Peace be to this house. Luke 10:5.

Let this benediction be in your heart whenever you come into the presence of another, it will help greatly to bring him and you into sympathetic accord (Phil. 2:2). Shun every one while you "feel

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